On day 2 of our three day stay in Kingston, Ontario my boyfriend and I did something that I’ve wanted to do for years now since hearing about the closing of the Kingston Penitentiary- a maximum security prison, the oldest in the country, and one of the most notorious. We bought tickets to take a tour of the now empty prison grounds and we were both super excited about it. Our tour was on Sunday afternoon at 2:15 as we figured that we’d have time for a quick lunch and then finish the tour just in time to get some dinner.
Because we decided to sleep in a bit, we headed toward the prison with only an hour to spare so we decided to stop for lunch somewhere near the prison so we wouldn’t be late for our tour. Luckily we did so, as we stumbled upon an adorable old pub, that was right next to the prison building, flanked on both sides by other old historic homes.
The Portsmouth tavern was a quaint little spot, and it looked like something you’d see in a little seaside town in the U.S. You could tell it was a very old place, and it was decorated with old ship parts, and old sports memorabilia inside. It was the quintessential small town boys hang out, and I imagined that it was and still remains a place where the locals and the university students gather to drink and watch sporting events together. ( kind of like the Clam in Family Guy 😝) I was surprised by how good the food was for such a little pub! I ordered a sandwhich with fried egg and vegetables in it, with a side of fries and my boyfriend ordered a classic grilled cheese. My sandwhich was amazing, and the fries were perfectly crispy and flavourful.
After our lunch, we parked in the prison parking lot and walked into the front of the prison where we checked in our tickets and were given wristbands, and ushered into a sitting area to await the start of our tour. In the sitting area was one of those mug shot backgrounds with height lines on it, so my boyfriend and I decided to pose against it: you can truly grasp the extent of our height difference and of my tinyness by looking at our pictures side by side.
Our tour guide, a young woman gathered about 30 of us and we began our tour in the room where prisoners were allowed visiting hours with family and spouses. There were a few metal tables bolted to the floor where inmates could sit across from their loved ones and a corner of the room was actually painted with images of Mickey Mouse and other characters which used to be an area for the children of inmates to play while they visited the prison. Another area of the visiting quarters resembled what we more commonly see in movies, bulletproof glass plating separating the inmate from their visitor, with a phone receiver on each end that each party could use to communicate. We were told that the inmates who were at risk of sneaking contraband out or in, or had a past of hiding contraband or were more dangerous had to sit behind the glass when meeting with visitors.
We then moved outside where we were shown the original prison entrance building, the oldest structure and the giant gates that served as the entrance, originally designed to fit horse and buggies, and later, cars.
We were told a story about a young man who worked at the prison in the early 1900’s who was attacked by inmates and killed in the spot we were standing on, right outside the main prison entrance. Apparently, although the prison has been operational since the 1830’s, only 7 prison workers have been killed on the prison grounds. Although most were murdered by inmates, a couple died accidentally after being crushed by falling construction equipment while the prison was undergoing renovations at different points in history.
We then entered one of the buildings were we were greeted by an ominous site- a scene straight out of every prison movie I’ve ever seen- walls lined high with cages, and within those walls, rows and rows of jail cells, all intertwined and connected by staircases.
I felt very uncomfortable in this area of the prison and I soon found out why. An older gentleman came into the room and told us he had worked at the prison for over 30 years. He then told us about the root of 1971 which had occurred in this room, and hearing about the atrocious nature of the riot and the actions that took place made me feel sick. We were told that in 1971 on the way to the rec center, an inmate began fighting with a prison guard, another guard got involved and they dragged the inmate into the rec room together. Apparently the other inmates assumed that the two guards were ganging up on the one inmate and they all started to attack the 4 guards on duty at the time. This caused absolute chaos and the prisoners ran free, taking over the entire area for a series of days and barracading themselves in that area of the prison before they eventually surrendered and were overtaken by more guards. During the time of the riot, some of the prisoners ganged up on 4 inmates, torturing and killing two of them. It was a disaster.
After hearing about the riot, we were allowed the chance to see inside some of the standard jail cells. Each was relatively small and contained a bunk bed, desk, toilet, and shelf.
We also got to see solitary confinement, which is where prisoners got sent when they were found with weapons or drugs on them or when they were under threat of being attacked or killed by other inmates, so for their own protection. The Solitary confinement rooms were much larger and only contained a simple stone slab with a mattress and a toilet. Inmates in solitary confinement rarely left their rooms, but they were offered 1 hour outside each day in a very small enclosed court.
Although we were not allowed to ask about specific inmates I was very curious about where notorious serial killer Paul Bernardo was kept as he was a resident at Kingston Penitentiary until it’s closing in 2013 at which point he and the other inmates were relocated. Paul Bernardo is a well known and widely followed case in Canada due to the gruesome nature of the murders and rapes he and his wife committed in the early to mid 1990s. Due to the nature of his crimes, and the fact that he targeted young female victims I can imagine that he spent most if not all of his stay in the penitentiary in solitary confinement for his own protection.
One of the most impressive architectural work I’ve ever seen was inside one of the shop buildings that we got the chance to visit. Since opening its doors in the 1800s, inmates were given the chance to work in a number of shops doing tasks such as furniture upholstery, Mattress making, and even putting together mail bags for the Canada Post. The building that holds the shops is very old, and the stone work in the mattress shop which is the oldest standing shop is incredible. Our tour guide told us that the stone work on the ceiling of the room is so old that no one alive today knows how to replicate it.
After visiting the shops area we were allowed to see the excercise yard where the prisoners got their daily dose of fresh air. What I found most surprising was that for the entire time the prison was in operation, it did not have electric wire fencing. The electric fencing was only added in 2013, which is the year the prison closed. This explains why there were so many prison escapes that took place at the Kingston Penitentiary.
While we were standing in the yard, our tour guide told us about a prisoner who had made a successful escape from the prison in 1999. Apparently he had gotten as far as Toronto, where he had been staying in a condo, when the police began searching for him. Once found however, a giant stand off occurred between him and the police which ultimately left him dead- but from an apparently self inflicted gun shot. Apparently they are still unsure if he shot himself on purpose or accidentally.
The last stop on our tour was in a small recreation room that was attached to a section of the prison meant for inmates who needed assistance whether it be due to mental illness or old age. The room was beautifully painted, and apparently a school had painted the murals on the walls of the rec room for the inmates in an attempt to make the room more cheery. The room had basketball nets and looked a lot like a school gymnasium.
Overall, I am so glad that we got take the tour as it was an amazing and interesting experience! I had never seen a prison before except for in movies, and the Kingston Penitentiary was in some ways similar and in others less so what I had expected. The tour guide was very well informed, the tour was very in depth and well planned and showcased a lot more of the prison than Id expected. Although I felt really eerie in many parts of the prison knowing the nature of some of the inmates held there, it was a very eye opening experience to life inside a maximum security prison. I highly reccomend this tour!
We spent the rest of our Saturday afternoon walking through the streets of Kingston, taking in the old buildings, and checking out some of the shops on the Main Street. The good thing is, since I’ve been to Kingston so many times, I was able to bring my boyfriend to all the coolest spots in town, and to even fill him in on tid bits of historical facts and some of the urban legends surrounding some of the sites I took him too.
This alley way, for instance, a slightly ominous stone tunnel, that serves as a shortcut of sorts between two of the main streets in kingstons downtown core, and gives you access to a hidden little restaurant called Chez Piggy, has a reportedly haunted past. Apparently the old stone alleyway, which has been standing since the early 1800s, was the site of a brutal murder in the early to mid 19th century. Apparently, a young pregnant woman was stalked and killed in the tunnel as she was walking through it alone at night by a scorned lover, or maybe the father of her unborn child, I can’t quite remember. Anyway, the legend goes that her body was never found, but apparently it’s hidden somewhere in the walls of the tunnel, and that when women are walking through the tunnel alone at night, her ghostly figure appears to them, trying to point them in the direction of her remains. Creepy.
Here are some more pictures I snapped of some of kingstons old buildings and homes:
We took a break from exploring the streets to have a hot drink (it was a little chilly that day) at a quaint little coffee shop near town square called “Coffeeco” the “eco” in the name is meant to refer to the fact that all the sweets made in the shop are made with only organic materials, and the coffee cups are all organic and biodegradable. I ordered a hot chocolate with lactose free milk, which came with a lovely design courtesy of the barista, and my boyfriend ordered a dark roast coffee. The hot chocolate was delicious, and we sat in the very back table, as all the other tables were taken, and I was grateful for our table, as I found something quite peculiar and awe inspiring at our little spot. In the old stone wall that are table was placed against, was a small hole in the stone and within that hole was a tiny scroll held together with ribbon. Obviously intrigued, I removed the scroll and opened it up revealing something amazing; it was a bucket list that had been filled back to front with hundreds of entries from previous customers, each of them having written down something that they’ve always wanted to do. I thought that the idea was so unique, and it was so interesting to read everyone’s entries. I have to say that we didn’t leave an entry ourselves, as we couldn’t find anything to write with, but I plan on filling in a spot on the scroll next time I visit.
This past weekend, my two best friends and I decided to drive into the city and get a hotel room for Saturday night. Because we all live north of the city of Toronto and all work more or less away from the city, we don’t get to spend much time there. We started our adventure early on Saturday morning with big plans of walking around the city and checking out cafes and ice cream shops like “Sweet Jesus” that we had all heard so much about. However, the weather quickly ruined any plans we had of walking around much as there was heavy rainfall all afternoon into the evening, which sadly meant no chance to walk to the ice cream shop.
Instead, we opted for a quick brunch at Aroma cafe and espresso bar, as it was directly across the street from our hotel. I had never ordered from the breakfast menu at Aroma before but I was really impressed by the breakfast sandwiches. I ordered a breakfast sandwhich with avocado and egg (cause you know, we millennials like avocado) and it was amazing. Honestly, one of the best breakfast sandwhiches that I’ve ever eaten. The bread was amazing, and I’m a sucker for egg and avocado together. I mistakenly ordered only a half portion of the sandwhich instead of a full, thinking it would be filling enough for me but I could’ve eaten way more. Sorry no pictures of the sandwhich I was way too hungry- but here’s a picture of my best friend getting his breakfast on:
We decided to spend the day indoors at the Toronto Eaton Center mall, which is arguably the best mall in the city. Nordstrom was having its anniversary sale and I gleefully purchased 3 pairs of shoes that I had previously had my eye on and were now half their original price. I also purchased a couple tops from the Urban Outfitters located on Queen street, across from the mall, but I was a little dissapointed with their selection of items compared to their usual stock and it was really hard to find sizes in anything. I will be making a haul post this week featuring my new purchases.
The shopping was fun, but for me I was most happy about getting to buy a bag of candy at the store Squish which is a candy shop specializing in hundreds of flavours and shapes of gummy candies. They only have a couple locations in Toronto, one being a small pop up shop in the Hudsons Bay of the Eaton Centre mall. I had heard a lot about the company and about some of their delicious alcohol infused gummy candies like the prosecco gummy bears. The candy definitely lived up to its hype, and we devoured that bag of gummy goodness. I was able to take a few pictures of the candies before they were eaten.
There were gummy pineapples, gummy mermaids, sharks, bears, strawberries, watermelon, cherries, sour gummies, alcohol infused gummies- I was in candy heaven. I can’t wait to go back to the Eaton centre to buy more!
To finish off our night out on the town, we decided to try something we had all been dying to try for a while: a karaoke bar! We found a place called Bar + near our hotel which was a bar and karaoke lounge. We cabbed over -it was still raining- and we were told that there are individual karaoke rooms for 2+ people (which I like much better than having to sing on a stage in a crowded bar). The wait time for a karaoke room however, was a whopping 2 hours and because we didn’t want to cab back to the hotel to wait it out, we decided to have a couple of drinks at the bar. The crowd in the karaoke lounge was vary diverse and ranged from young couples, to a group of middle aged women celebrating a birthday, to a bachelor party of rowdy 20-something men with a blow up doll in tow (people watching is quite entertaining).
Eventually around 12:15 pm, we got our karaoke room which we had decided to rent for an hour and a half ( which goes by very quickly when you’re belting out 90s love ballads) and we were given an iPad with thousands of songs which we could make a playlist out of for our karaoke session. We chose a variety of our collective favourites, like “Just A Girl” by No Doubt, “Toxic” by Britney Spears, almost everything by Destinys Child, and most of the soundtrack from Grease. It was honestly one of the funnest group activities we’ve ever done and I’m dying to do it again. I loved the seclusion of being in our own room and being able to dance around and karaoke to our hearts content without being watched. And thus was our “best friends” weekend.
I was going through my expansive photo library yesterday and I rediscovered a ton of photography I had taken on past vacations and trips. I decided to make a weekly thread where each Friday I’ll post a picture or two that I’ve taken from somewhere in the world.
This week, for my first Travel Photography Friday post, I’ve decided to feature some photos that I took on a trip to Aruba in April of 2015.
This little old chapel known as the Alto Vista was the first ever built in Aruba and is located in isolation amidst a desert landscape. The original church was built in the 1700s but this structure that stands there now was built in the 1950s. We had to rent ATV’s to reach this spot and it was an amazing experience.
A photo I took off the beach near where we were staying known as Eagle Beach. The waters were so clear and pristine and the sand was clean and well maintained. Definitely one of the best beaches I’ve ever been to.
I’ve just discovered this song and I can’t stop playing it so I thought I would share it! I really love this song and I find both the lyrics and the melody entrancing. I had never heard anything by this artist before but after hearing this beautiful song and his incredible voice I am an instant fan of his. I’m a huge fan of Indie/Alternative rock and I’m always on the look out for new artists to listen to and I’m so happy with this discovery! I will definitely be adding more of his music to my ever growing ITunes library.
Some of my favourite lyrics from the song include:
“Talking ain’t as easy when you’re down
I know you know I’m tryin’ to find the words to say
You told me you would always be around
But now you’re gone, I know that we are not okay
I’m so afraid of growing old
So don’t you go and leave me on my own”
“Looking for my answers from above
The only home I knew was for me and you”
I’ve inserted a link to the song on YouTube so that you can take a listen or you are interested! 💕
I hope everyone had a lovely weekend and for those celebrating Father’s Day I hope it was good!
I spent most of Saturday morning studying for the GRE test that I have to take in the end of July for my Masters program and taking flatlay photography in my room (the photo above was taken then). 😝I’ve developed a recent obsession for flatlay photography and I find it fun finding a mix of fashion items and knick knacks that go well together and capturing them in a photograph.
I wanted to mention something that I found quite fascinating that happened to me on Sunday. I’ll start with a bit of background information. 12 years ago, the summer after I turned 10, my aunt gave me a beautiful ring as a late birthday gift while my family and my cousins family were up at my grandparents cottage together. It was an adorable flower shaped ring- a blue stone in the middle, surrounded with tiny diamonds that made up the flower’s petals. I was so happy about the ring and so excited to wear it because It was truly the first piece of “real” jewellery I had ever received, so I put it on right away. The ring had been made a little too big for my tiny 10 year old fingers and after not even 5 minutes of chasing my cousins around the backyard while holding a red balloon, I felt myself accidentally let go of said balloon, which caused the ring to slip right off my finger. The entire backyard is made up of sand as the cottage backs onto a sand hill, so the ring landed somewhere in the sand making it impossible to see. I was so distraught over losing the ring that I remember crying for the rest of the day and for the rest of that weekend, my whole family searched for the ring. We never found it. We spent years looking for it every summer in the sand, using shovels and sifting pans but to no avail. Eventually we all forgot about it. Fast forward 12 years later and somehow my grandfather-who at 80 still manages to maintain a house and a cottage-was doing yard work in the backyard of the cottage when he spotted something shiny sitting on top of the sand. And lo and behold; it was the ring! He called me right away to tell me and I was so shocked! I never thought I’d see it again, especially not after 12 years had already passed! I visited my grandparents Sunday and was reunited with the ring at last. It actually fits me much better then it fit my younger self and it’s in great shape considering it weathered 12 years of rain, wind, snow, and dirt! 😝
Has anyone else lost something for a long time only to find it turn up randomly much later? Let me know in the comments ! 😊